10 Best Korean Dating Sites for Locals and Foreigners

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Dating is a big deal in Korea and the culture focuses heavily around marriage, family and relationships. 

If you’re looking for a long-term commitment or just want to find new friends, there are many places online to do just that. It’s a risk-free way to meet new and interesting people.

The article below lists all the best Korean dating sites available. These include websites as well as apps, making it quick, convenient and easy to access. Some sites come with apps and others are only apps.

Regardless of which one you choose, it’s important that you take the utmost care to protect yourself. While meeting someone online is excellent, especially if you’re a busy professional, it can be dangerous.

Dating Sites & Apps Overview

There are many good sites and apps geared toward Korean dating, but the following are ones that are the best and most popular.

  • AsianDate
  • AsianDating.com
  • Korean Cupid
  • AsiaMe
  • OKCupid
  • Amanda
  • Sky People
  • Noondate
  • Match
  • eHarmony
  • Online Dating Tips

1. AsianDate

AsianDate is an ideal site for men between the ages of 25 and 45 looking for Korean women who are in their mid to late 20s. 

Signing up is fast and they offer many ways to interact with women via instant message, chat room or webcam. You can even speak together on the phone with the help of an interpreter.

However, as with anything online, there are some things to be aware of and careful for when using the site.

For instance, there are some concerns about female profile authenticity. These are either fake accounts or, in some cases, women pretending to be single when they’re a “lady of the night.”

Regardless, AsianDate is one of the most trustworthy, reliable and dependable online dating sites. They have about five million users and they are one of the most popular. Many people report great success in finding that special someone.

2. AsianDating.com

With over two million members, AsianDating.com is another website that offers dating Asians in general. But it very much includes those from or living in South Korea. 

What’s great is that it’s good for both men or women 25 years or older looking for a relationship. It doesn’t cater to just one gender

Signing up is a breeze and you can use your Facebook account if you wish. 

The best way to get results is by including a picture of yourself. They also offer user verification, which staves off any accusations of you having a fake profile.

Plus, it’s free! However, they do have a premium upgrade so you can enjoy all the additional features AsianDating.com has to offer. 

They have a chat room and their profiles pack quite a bit of information, so you can be confident about whom you choose to contact.

3. Korean Cupid

Another very popular Korean dating site and app is Korean Cupid. This is for anyone looking for a relationship with a Korean, male or female – Korean or not. 

However, there are mostly women and there are about one million users. This makes it ideal for singles in their mid-30s and older.

It’s also important to note that most of the membership is Korean, men included.

But, a great portion of them live in the United States & Korean Cupid’s second largest demographic lives in Korea. 

Their signup process is fairly fast and you can incorporate your Facebook account.

The only downside is the account verification, where you will have to provide your ID. This, naturally, creates concerns over privacy. 

Another pitfall is that if you find someone of interest, you will have to sign up for a premium account to send messages. But, you can use the chat room with your free account.

4. AsiaMe

As one of the most solid and secure online dating sites, AsiaMe provides worldwide dating that’s easy to use. 

They have an advanced fraud prevention and detection system backed by GoDaddy and McAfee. 

Even women’s profiles go through a verification process via an ID, so there are no serious concerns in regards to fraudulent activity.

AsiaMe is both a website and an app, giving users a plethora of options for contact and self-expression. 

They have video, chat rooms and email but there’s also Camshare, love letters, access to private photos and the capacity for giving someone a gift. All of these you have to pay for with Qpid credits.

This is a good site for men because AsiaMe’s user base is mostly women who are between the ages of 18 and 35 years old.

While this isn’t exclusive to Korean dating, there are many Koreans in their membership base.

5. OKCupid

In operation since 2003, OKCupid is both a dating website and an app.

Not only do they offer traditional male-female dating options, but they also cater to other genders and sexual orientations. 

They use an algorithm that asks thousands of questions based on social, political and cultural perspectives so you obtain the right matches.

However, this means the sign up process is rather lengthy and it does take some time. 

While you can communicate with anyone who piques your interest for free, the paid membership plan provides the ability to view who likes and messages you.

OKCupid pride themselves on breaking traditional dating norms and proclaim themselves the “champion of relationships in all forms.” 

They do this under the beliefs and policies that everyone deserves love, no matter what their preferences are.

6. Amanda

Solely a mobile app, Amanda has over five million users and caters to both men and women looking for love inside and outside Korea. 

This is one of the most popular apps used in Korea and throughout the world. 

They have quality control of their members with an intricate screening system where other members judge new members by giving a score.

This brings us to the downside of Amanda’s dating app. You earn your rank based on how you look in your ID and your educational background. 

This can be either a confidence boosting or humiliating experience. While it does seem shallow to judge people based on their appearance, they do have outlets for people to express themselves.

The sign up process is lengthy due to the long list of questions and fields available to describe yourself.

These include topics such as core values, religious views, political leanings, hobbies and etc. They display these as hashtags to make for better and simpler searches.

7. Sky People

Sky People’s focus is on what Koreans value most in dating, which is having a good job and getting an excellent university education. 

This app-only service is one of the more popular ones in Korea and it’s 100% free to use.

Women who are at least 30 years old who have an impeccable background can sign up quite easily. 

Men, on the other hand, have requirements that are more stringent. They must prove they have a prestigious degree or a superior career such as a lawyer, doctor and etc.

Sky People’s philosophy is to amass and attract only the best people who are looking for a serious relationship that may lead to marriage. 

This means dating people with great credentials who are very intelligent and have a promising career.

8. Noondate

Noondate is a purely Korean app used mostly by Koreans. Therefore, you should know how to speak and read Korean in order to use it. 

What’s cool about it, though, is that every day at noon, you will receive notifications of three new people based on your location. It’s great just for meeting new people or trying to find a potential marriage partner.

There are almost five million users, so you’re sure to find someone. There’s chat, voice messaging and other nifty features. 

Plus, they verify credentials via your Facebook account. However, Noondate has a very detailed approach to how they accept users. 

Only those with completed profiles have allowance to use the app.

But the interface is responsive and interactive, which makes it not only interesting but fun to use. For successful couples that get married, Noondate interviews them and gives them a gift.

9. Match.com

Even though Match.com is not a solely Korean online dating site, they do have many Korean users. 

There’s even a section on the site specific to Korean dating. It’s a very popular site with worldwide renown, hosting some 28 million members. It’s trustworthy, secure, reliable and they have a provable track record.

However, success in dating through the site comes from personal investment.

Your account must remain active and you have to use it continually to keep your profile in the loop. Regardless, signing up is quick and painless. 

But, they don’t have a lot of questions or a huge space for you to describe yourself. So, you must be accurate and concise.

It’s mostly free and you can send likes to those who you find most attractive. But, the free features are on a trial basis. Eventually, you will have to pay for the service if you wish to continue using it.

10. eHarmony

Yet another site that’s not Korean-only but has many Korean users is eHarmony.

They’ve been in the matchmaking business for well over two decades with many people having great success finding their perfect marriage partner. It’s excellent for men and women in their mid-20s and older.

eHarmony has over 29 million users, and that’s just in the United States. 

Their questionnaire and sign up process is incredibly long but it’s design lends itself to a personalized and focused experience. 

They pair people via personality tests along with algorithms so you find someone who will be the best match for you.

However, it is incredibly costly even though eHarmony offers a free trial. Once that trial expires, they badger you to sign up and pay for the service. 

It’s rather relentless. Regardless, it’s a good site with an excellent track record.

Online Dating Tips

No discussion about Korean online dating sites and apps would be complete without a few pointers before you jump in headfirst. 

While all of the sites mentioned above are very cognizant of safety and security online, you must do your own due diligence. 

This means reviewing the sites with a fine-toothed comb and understanding the ins and outs of each.

Learn Korean Language & Culture

First, if Koreans are really what you’re going for, you must know how to speak some of the language and understand the dating culture. 

It is the social norm for men to pay for everything on a date without any burden on the woman. 

Because Korean culture favors men, the women do tend to have low self-esteem issues, even admitted by Korean men.

If you’re a non-Korean man looking for a Korean woman, understand that their mindset is not the same as women from the US, France or even Mexico. 

They don’t speak out of turn and it’s not common for them to be loud or opinionated. While there are exceptions to the rule, most Korean women are quiet, subdued and shy.

Avoiding Romance Fraud

Second, educate yourself on the concept of “Romance Fraud.” There are people who put up false profiles or prostitutes looking for clients in the hopes of ripping off a potential “mate.” 

This means you’ll have to go the extra mile and carefully review your list of matches. Don’t be afraid to take your time with each one.

Devise questions for them to help guard against fraudulent activity. Think of it something like an application process. 

The biggest red flag for fraud is when they ask for money. If that happens, report the profile to the dating site and leave them alone. If there’s a blocking feature, use it immediately.

Be Honest & Forthright

Last, but not least, Koreans value truth and they don’t like meeting strangers online. In fact, they don’t like dating people who don’t meet the approval of their friends and family. 

Therefore, it’s imperative you be completely honest about your photo, information and other necessary details.

Don’t be that person that creates a fake profile on a Korean dating app. You’ll probably find a lot of Korean singles there, but it most likely won’t work out. Especially, because those Korean singles are looking for real love.

Conclusion

While the list of Korean dating sites above gives a good overview, you should look into each one that you find interesting. 

Ensure you review their privacy policies and thoroughly understand how the company uses your data (selling your information to third parties, exposure to hackers and etc).

Unfortunately, not every site will cater to what you want. 

Therefore, it may be good to look through three or four and do trials before purchasing a membership. Once you zero in on one or two, delete your profiles on the other sites.

If you take the necessary steps and do thorough checking on your matches, you should end up meeting some wonderful people you wouldn’t have otherwise. 

Even though there are warnings with dating sites, millions of people have found perfect marital bliss by doing so. It can work for you too. And if it doesn’t try other Korean dating sites because at the end of the day, it’s a numbers game.

About The Author

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Jason Park

Jason has been living in Seoul over 4 years and during that time, he has experienced a lot of the city's quirks and charms. He loves to write about his experiences and share them with others who are interested in learning more about South Korea.

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